Expert on slut-shaming. Author of six books. Expert witness. Thought leader supporting bodily autonomy for girls and women. I explain how "slut," "hoe," and "thot" are more than insults; these words prop up thinking and behavior that harm us all. We live in a culture with a "boys will be boys, and girls will be sluts" attitude. Let's expose this double standard and make sure everyone is treated with the respect they deserve.

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"Why won't my gym let me wear a sports bra

when I work out?"

"Is it appropriate to wear a bikini at a family swim party?"

"What can we do to stop people from posting

private photos without consent?"

"My teacher kicked me out of the classroom because

my bra strap was showing, and I missed my math lesson.

What can I do?"

"If a woman wears a skimpy outfit,

isn't she asking to be harassed?"


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